5 tips for sissies to keep a female dominatrix interested and happy

I have trained many sissies. But I have also blocked and denied many more. Here are my 5 best tips for sissies that will help them find or keep a female dominatrix as their owner.

Princess Diamonds

''You are like the chair I am sitting on. If you don't serve your purpose, i will throw you out.''

Tip 1 : It is not about you.

This is probably the thing I hate the most. We Femdommes are not clowns made to entertain your sexual fantasies. This isn't about you. This is about ME. I hate sissies who tell me what they want and what they like. If i care about what you like, i will ask you for it. To me, sissy slaves serve a purpose of making my life easier and better. That's why i keep you around. If you're going to behave like I am supposed to entertain you, you will be deleted faster than you can type your next word. If you really want to serve a girl, and be their bitch. Then do what THEY want and what THEY ask. Treat them like a true princess. 

Tip 2 : Don't be disrespectful to our time

I like to chat and spend time with my sissies. What I don't like, is sissies demanding my time like it's theirs to take. It is not. Don't spam your messages, don't beg for attention and keep the conversation fun. Keep in mind that when a Femdom chats with you, or spends time with you, she is using her personal time and spending it on a sissy slave. Be thankfull.

Tip 3 : Be prepared


''Sorry Mistress, I don't have a dildo, I can't do your task''
''Sorry Mistress, I am not at home, I can't do your task''
''Sorry Mistress, I don't have a camera''
''Sorry Mistress, I don't have a buttplug''
''Sorry Mistress, I can't do that, can I do this instead?''
I bet you can see why this is a big turn off for Mistresses.
Yuck! Do some sissy shopping

Princess Diamonds owner of Sissy Joyce

Tip 4 : Do your research

Femdom and specificly Findom is an easy way to earn money. Be mean to some guys, demand tributes and repeat! We see multiple fake femdom profiles show up on every site you can imagen. Even FemDom bots. Don't send money to a Mistress you don't know or trust. Make sure she has a verification video on her twitter and if she has an Onlyfans, that also means they are real. Besides, it's better for you to invest in your own sissyfication first. Don't get scammed.

Tip 5 : Spoil your Mistress

A Mistress deserves to be spoiled and receive tributes every once in a while. Every Mistress has their own rates of course. Getting presents and receiving tips is something that makes us happy. It makes us feel like a Mistress. However, there are many Femdommes out there who are financially motivated and that is not okay. The only thing some of them want is take as much money from you as possible and leave. Preying on lonely submissive men. Thats discusting. Don't do that. Always, always always invest in your own goals first. First buy that pretty dress and a good chastity cage. If you have anything left to spend, send a little tip or subscribe to your favorite domme. 


3 comments


  • sissy tina

    wonderful article Mistress! Especially rule # 1… That has to be constantly honored


  • Jason

    I have to agree with you. A D/S relationship is a two way street. If all she asked for is money then delete her. I have found that hard to find. You have a loving and wonderful sissy that wordships you. I hope one day to I find one.


  • Max

    Thanks for the precious advices


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